It's always a wonderful experience having to look through a lot of men and ladies when looking for your soulmate, especially if you do your best to attract that attention. And after you have found your mate, it's all Romantic Joy until just this time when everything starts going wrong.
You did your best attracting your soulmate, so why don't you do your best to keep them. The fact that you are from different backgrounds and are bound to live together a life time makes differing inevitable, hence, suggesting 'a long life romantic life is hardwork from both partners'.
Therefore, how you manage your conflicts and differences defines your Love Journey together or apart. A lot of valuable advice has been posted on this site, so, I am only contributing to the ingredients of a "Bigger Cake".
Its been said, "its little foxes that spoil the field" meaning, its not only bigger problems that will set you apart, but the very small problems that you consider irrelevant and push to the back of your mind that will one day accumulate and finally explode. Its like wearing a time bomb around your neck.
So, the very simplest of advice I would give is:
Study your soulmate everyday, because the environment we live in contribute to our changing attitudes everyday. What you may know about your partner today maybe different tomorrow, however, if you are daily learning about them then you will know how to handle them with their changes.
Men love their respect. Identify your man's strengths and concentrate on appreciating him on that. There is nothing so good as a wife who is so proud of you and has confidence in what you do.
Women love attention. Rocognize your woman wherever she is - whether together or apart at work. Tell them you love them, call them, give them your ears and have a big heart as a man, park the car and take a walk hand in hand just the two of you.
Verbally agree or draw up an understanding on how you will run your Life together.
There is a lot to talk about, but only a few things can be shared for now. The bottom line is LOVE is good, but it's hardwork.
