How to Attract Women – 3 Myths That Prevent YOU From Successfully Attracting a Girlfriend

There are myths in life everywhere that you look that prevent people from ever really trying to live out the life that they really want. When it comes to dating and women, most guys hold onto these myths like a comfortable blanket, afraid to challenge them, afraid to see what COULD BE. Traditional dating advice for men is typically plagued with these misunderstandings about what attracts women, and until you BREAK FREE from them, success is probably going to elude you.

Sure, when you are younger, you get these ideas that sound like the truth about what attracts women, but as you get out there, and you see that they just don’t hold water like they are supposed to, it’s hard to really know what to think.

Here are 3 myths about how to attract women that are HOLDING you back from attracting a girlfriend:

1. Women only date men with money and good looks.

Frustrated guys hold onto this myth stronger than just about any other one that is out there. The simple fact is, you do not have to be the best looking guy, and you certainly do not have to have money pouring out of your pockets to attract a girlfriend, or to even play the field for a while to see what you really want. It’s easy to believe in this idea that you have to be a guy that is great looking and is loaded, because it sounds like the truth. That is, until you get around average looking guys that have average money and are still able to surround themselves with beautiful women.

2. You have to be ultra smooth to pick up women.

Some guys think that in order to pick up women, you have to have a rock star look, have smooth lines that just drop like water, and that you need to be a total jerk to get a woman to want you. Well, truth is, you do have to have some style, and you do need to be able to speak to women and not come off like a total goofball, but you don’t have to be the smoothest guy out there. And you don’t have to be a jerk to pull women, you just cannot be a pushover.

3. You be in tip top physical shape to attract a girlfriend.

Pudgy guys still seem to be able to attract women, so this myth is not exactly one that holds much weight. (No pun intended.) While it is good to keep in shape for your own benefit and there are some women that place a lot of value on a guy that is in good physical shape, it’s usually not the deal breaker that some guys think it is.

Author: Chris Tyler