Some psychologists put a line between a child-like woman and a woman who acts like a child. They say there are two different types of women: childish and child-like. The first type explains a woman's behaviour. The second type is about facial features. But according to the physiognomy there is a dependence between facial appearance, particular configuration, on the one hand, and a person's nature (character), on the other hand. I made my personal observations. Now I can say that childlike features tell about a childish nature. The more characteristic features of babyface a woman has, the more child-like features of the character she has.
Is it good or bad to love a childish girl? What are the perspectives on the love relationship between a man and a child-like woman? First of all, you love her. It's great, because you love = you live! It's the best period of your life. Secondly, you love a girl who brings more light into your life, like a spring, every day. It's especially valuable in the morning, when you're opening your eyes, see your beloved "sun" and have a great energy boost to start the day successfully, and in the evening, when you're tired, you come home and see your lovely "star" - she makes you smile, relax and forget all your troubles. Yes, sometimes she can cry, like any woman. But in this case you will be sure that she is sincere. Her tears soon can be replaced with laughter. A big advantage of a childlike woman is her peacefullness. She will not hold grudge for a long time. Either she laughs or cries - she does that whole-heartedly, sincerely, she is not afraid to be herself. That's why it's almost always easy to know what is on her mind. Just look into her eyes! This type of a woman is a special mix of pureness, sincerity and sexuality, that attracts, keeps and inspires. Her open-mindness and curiosity are fundamental notes for passion and romance in your sexual life. She is like a breathe of fresh air.
At the same time, she is more sensitive, than other types of women. Try to be careful when choosing the right words and not so impulsive and rude when you're in a bad mood. It's not a good idea for a man to keep order by snapping at the childlike woman. Keep in mind, you're 2-in-1 for your beloved woman: both a husband and a teacher (like a father). Try to combine love and care with strictness in the right place at the right time.
Such a woman lives out of "templates" and social standards, because she follows, like a child, her heart. That has its good and bad points. You can compare her with a pure tinkling stream - a bit naive and rash, but natural, real. A lack of maturity makes her unprepared (more or less) to adulthood, that is why she needs a real man, an adult man - responsible and purposeful. I know two families with such combination of female and male characteristics. They are happy! So, if you want to attract a childlike woman and create a happy union, you should have a strong character, be brave, be a leader.
Some people associate childishness with "capricious", "naughty" character, that is considered in some way a child's characteristic. I think it is a mistaken approach, because there are different children. A child's behaviour depends on the appropriate upbringing. Sometimes a child acts wrong or says wrong things. It is just because a boy or a girl doesn't know the rules of our adult life, because lack of information and life experience. The most important and valuable traits of the children are innocence, purity, simplicity. It's a pity that such great qualities are gradually lost by many grown-ups.
What do you think of childlike women? Share your thoughts and experience.
I was wondering about this for a long time of WHY, a woman wants a strong, and grown man in her life.
Because she, wants a man, who is like a Father figure, much like her Father was to her, who will look after her like a child, and the children that she gives birth to.
Which brings me to the conclusion, I would much rather stay single then, and be FRIENDS ONLY with a woman, then have to be an extension of her FATHER to her.
A child-like woman can evolve into more self-sufficient adult. It depends on life circumstances, for example, difficulties can make her more serious, independent and responsible. At the same time this type of women will be sensitive and a bit naive, there will be a sun in their hearts, and they will always want a stong-willed man, love and care.
I have to say, you hit the nail right on the head. My current girlfriend (or just recently ex-girlfriend) fit that exact description. I love her to pieces, and she is the sweetest, kindest, most selfless person I've ever met, but I feel I can't rely on her. I'm afraid that if I really need her she won't know how to act. She's so naive to life that it amazes me she's gotten this far unscathed. I don't think she's stupid, but having an intelligent conversation can be a challenge. I feel like an a$$hole for breaking her heart. But what am I to do? I need a life partner, not a child to take care of. Do you think she would grow out of this phase? Do child-like women evolve into more self-sufficient adults, or will they always require attention? Any help is greatly appreciated.
We know that this type of women often (or sometimes) acts and see the world like a child, it's common, but we should also remember that there are two types of child-like women. The first one is a spoilt child, who used to received everything she wants at once, she can't and don't want to wait, her ego is always on the first place. The second type is a playful child, who likes "dolls", but she almost always take into account the situation: if her man can buy something she wants or not, if he really has an opportunity (either time or money) to fulfill her dreams. You should personally decide, do you like a child-like woman; if you like, than what's the type? Anyway, if you want to be the leader in the family and if you want a woman to respect you, you shouldn't always be in her parade. There should be a wise combination of love, kindness and logic in your behavior. Try to feel the right time for hugs, smile and strictness.
I am 49, never married, and this young lady I referred to is a living doll, both in looks and personality, but there seems to be a child-like nature that I am not familiar with or understand completey for a 38-year old corporate attorney. (Note: I do prefer the fun-side over a diva-side any day of the week). Anyhow, I also befriended a young 8-year old girl at my office who would stay with me while her mother cleaned the building, and we became really close friends, as I can act both like an adult and child as needed. And she acted like a typical little girl, sort of sweet and innocent, nieve, flighty, excited, playful, with a slightly short attention span, and can also get frustrated easily and/or start to pout out of the blue. My question is, the 38-year old acts the same way, and I am curious if there is some emotional disconnect I a missing here, what to expect, and how to handle.
Met young 38-year single woman I really like. she is Asian as a corporate attorney in Australia, but acts more like a 10-year old little girl both the playful and questioning side, and also the hurt, short, stubborn, and defensive sid3e. She is unique, but a bit concerning, and looking for information.
T! I understand you completely. As a matter of fact, it's difficult almost for every man to consider a woman seriously. And it takes much time for women to prove men that a woman is also able to think and act in the right way - her way. At the same time, I know that there are many men who love child-like women, because such women help them to feel and see the best sides of the life.
hahaha yeah... but i hope this is from a man's point of view. because i want to know what they really think about childlike women. i'm quite childlike. it pains me sometimes because most men don't seem to value my opinions that much - because they think that i'm just about optimism, pureness, sincerity and yeah - vulnerability and being naive. it damn hurts but i don't know how to be someone else! i always try to act serious and tough, but argh - that child just don't grow up in me!!! T___T
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Because she, wants a man, who is like a Father figure, much like her Father was to her, who will look after her like a child, and the children that she gives birth to.
Which brings me to the conclusion, I would much rather stay single then, and be FRIENDS ONLY with a woman, then have to be an extension of her FATHER to her.
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