I find this term "high maintenance" in many online discussions. What is the right definition? It is a common men's opinion that women labeled as "High Maintenance" need much money and only money. In my personal opinion, there is no woman who needs only money. Every woman has a heart and will open it for a right man. All women like quality stylish apparel, getting massage, shopping and, of course, like men's attention. The only difference is that high maintenance women place comfort, personal care and there "I want" on the first place, but love - on the second. They don't wish, they act, they require. It's their choice.
A high maintenance woman always come out with a stylish look, carries a designer handbag and walks like a princess. They like and prefer to receive rather than give. A high maintenance woman will spend some extra hours on makeup, manicures or surfing online shops for nice lingerie, fine jewelry or the best body cream. At the same time another woman, for example, a "Housewife" will be looking through the latest recipes to bake something tasty for you. You have a choice.
A High Maintenance woman always has high financial expectations of her date or partner. She feels herself a vary particular woman and she needs lots of time and money to underline it. She often choose the best and, accordingly, expensive. There are different reasons that women have for wanting those things. I would devide high maintenance women into two groups:
1. Public follower. These women select a restaurant because of she’s heard a well-known celebrity used to go there, not because of great food, special atmosphere and service.
2. Quality expert. These women select the best things because of the high attraction to quality.
At the same time, we can find "quality experts" in other female groups, such as "Housecat", "Housewife", "Romantic", "Caterer" etc. The difference between a High Maintenance Quality Expert woman and, for example, Romantic Quality Expert lies in the result: the first woman will beg a man to buy her that special thing in any case, the second woman will not go over family budget - she will ask a man to buy those things which are affordable for him, later she will think about the ways to increase family budget so that to buy good things.
There are men who like such women. Why? The first important reason is her great body and perfect appearance. Also, because of their pride of the body and mind, these women are confident. A man receives an additional big ego point to his self esteem when being with such a woman.
At the same time their perfectionism and high expectations of everything can become the downfall of dating and relationship. If a man doesn't give her expensive gifts and doesn't provide enough money for beauty products, fashion clothing and all her important appointments, she is in a bad mood. Sometimes it is difficult to please her. She has 35 pairs of shoes and is going to buy new shoes.
Are you going to date this type of women? Then you should:
be attentive, show respect to her in the way your speak to her and act,
have patience, don't complain about the time it takes for her to get ready,
remember to compliment her dress, fashion handbag, looks;
invite her into a high-level restaurant;
have a rest, but don't "relax" - always perform masculinity.
At the same time, we can find "quality experts" in other female groups, such as "Housecat", "Housewife", "Romantic", "Caterer" etc. The difference between a High Maintenance Quality Expert woman and, for example, Romantic Quality Expert lies in the result: the first woman will beg a man to buy her that special thing in any case, the second woman will not go over family budget - she will ask a man to buy those things which are affordable for him, later she will think about the ways to increase family budget so that to buy good things.
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